Wednesday, March 08, 2006

It's my rejection and I'll cry if I want to

Mr. Foxy just ditched me because he wasn't feeling any "chemistry."

Funny, I was feeling it the entire time we're out.

I will never understand why instant chemistry seems to be the most important thing in developing a relationship when we all know that chemistry is not what keeps a relationship going.

13 Comments:

Blogger chimera said...

Aw, what a shame. Sounds trite, I know, but it's his loss. You are fabulous, and I'm sending virtual cocktails and clean hankies your way !

11:01 AM  
Blogger TessaJ said...

Thank you. I know my sadness has very little to do with him (for I barely knew him) but more to do with the frustration of the whole process. I haven't met someone I've been truly interested in for a long time.

I just need to vent it out.

11:17 AM  
Anonymous Vanessa said...

You'll find someone better! You're smart and clever and clearly this man wasn't the right one for you. He did you a favor by freeing you up for someone entirely superior. Oh and check out the "hot Scots" on Beth's blog. Looking at cute boys from another country just might cheer you up.

11:54 AM  
Blogger TessaJ said...

Thanks, vanessa! I'll check that out! I'll be totally fine in a day or two, especially since I'm getting ready to leave for Australia (Australian men and I have a great history!) and the delightful Julia and I will get to spend some time hanging out, breaking a few hearts of our own!

12:19 PM  
Blogger Miss V said...

That's right...you two (Julia & My Muse) out on the town...look out Australia!

Sending virtual hugs & a big cupcake your way my sweet!

12:24 PM  
Blogger TessaJ said...

I swear, I should turn this into a dating blog -- I get so many great comments when I post about my life as a single gal! (Carrie Bradwho?)

12:29 PM  
Blogger Jules said...

Aw hon, I'm sorry to hear this. And I know the disappoint that you feel, since I can't even remember the last time I was truly interested in a guy (ok, that's a lie - I remember, but I'm trying to forget since it was remarkably similar to your lead-me-on-and-then-ditch-me story).

Holiday fling when you are in Australia, or maybe just lots of cocktails and wine with girly talk.

4:22 PM  
Blogger TessaJ said...

The thing is, I don't think he's a creep. Were he a creep, I could just scream lots of obscenities about him and feel that the problem is "him" and not the more general problem of finding a connection.

Anyhow...yes...Australia in just a few days. That's so nice :)

Thanks!

4:29 PM  
Blogger Miss V said...

When are you leaving for Australia?

12:56 PM  
Anonymous Sharp Lily said...

Sounds so trite, but you'll thank goodness it didn't work out when you're with the guy you're meant to be with. Sorry for the cliche, and have a ridiculously good time in Australia!!

1:56 PM  
Blogger TessaJ said...

I leave in a week! Yippee!

Sharp Lily -- thanks. I know you're right. I'm still feeling frustrated, but there's nothing I can do about that.

2:17 PM  
Blogger Annieytown said...

Late to this post: I am so sorry that it did not work out. I hope there is a dashing australian man in the future for you. I hope he oozes chemistry and he falls at your feet.
))T((

2:49 PM  
Blogger TessaJ said...

Thanks. There's actually some follow-up to the Mr. Foxy saga (very long and detailed and I sort of want to move past it, so I won't post it here).

To keep it short, he's a nice guy who is dealing with some "issues" that have nothing to do with me, and has since apologized for misleading me.

2:54 PM  

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